Do not conform yourselves to the standards of this world, but let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind. Then you will be able to know the will of God—what is good and is pleasing to him and is perfect.

Romans 12:2 

"I talk to people all the time who can't figure out what God wants them to do with their lives because they're conformed  to the world. They're more interested in being like everyone else than in being the unique person that God made them to be. As long as you're worried about God transforming you. And in that case, you won't worry about God transforming you. And in that case, you won't know the will of God.

But if you make Daniel's choice and choose God's best for your life, he'll transform you. Then you'll know the will of God."